“We don’t just lead others,
we lead ourselves.
”
PROGRAM
The workshop of “Why are you an asshole“ is about the relationship between increasing power and losing empathy and emotional intelligence with respect to creativity. An eye-opener to realise that everybody has a dark side, when it shows up and how to keep it under control, from three different perspectives:The workshop gives leaders the toolset to become a better leader – developing social and leadership skills to identify toxic leaders and shift toxic situations. The foundation to implement the noA** culture (the no asshole culture) – how to engage people and create a culture of motivation instead of pressure to be sustainably successful through self awareness and emotional intelligence.
noA**HOLE LEADERSHIP TOOLKIT TRAINING Interview
WHY DO SOME PEOPLE TURN INTO ASSHOLES?
WHAT | WHY | HOW
WHAT
** | WHAT is the meaning of bad leadership, the reasons why good leadership turns in front of the “success tool“ power into dark leadership.
WHY
** | WHY this power will be misused from a human nature, psychological and especially creativity point of view. The personality profiles of creative leaders in combination with the moment of excellence give additional reason to the exponentiated risk to fall.
HOW
** | And last, but not least HOW does this turn happen from an organisational perspective as well as taking into account the by-products of success, situational power and the psychology of stress.
HOW CAN WE STOP CO-WORKERS FROM MISTREATING PEOPLE?
OTHERS | TOXICITY SHIFT
TOXIC CULTURE
** | We go through different behaviours and expressions of toxic cultures and learn how to identify what is going on. Notions, and methods of observation. Negative & positive cultures, how does it feel in you, vocabulary, master suppression techniques.
NOTICE
** | How you notice what is going on in your work situation, without stepping out? We learn participant observation - how to observe while being a part of the situation..
SWITCH
** | Removing blame, action for yourself & for others. Show with role play examples. Theatre methods. Emergency training - Mental training.
HOW TO AVOID KILLING YOUR SUCCESS WITH THE ASSHOLE VIRUS?
YOURSELF | BODY MIND RELATIONSHIP & noA** GUIDE
PERSONAL:
EMERGENCY KIT - MOMENT OF NO RETURN - BODY AWARENESS
** | A simple and effective set of tools and exercises that can be implemented immediately upon recognising your A**hole behaviour to help you regain your calm in a heated situation.
MOMENT OF NO RETURN
** | Exploration of what is happening on a psychological level when in an “A**hole state” and exercises to develop the ability to maintain a larger perspective and prevent A**hole behaviour before it begin.
BODY AWARENESS
** | Discover methods to build a relationship with your body to develop a language for you to hear and understand your own personal needs giving you the power and ability to consciously act in challenging situations.
ORGANISATIONAL:
STRUCTURE - CULTURE - PSYCHOLOGY
** | An easy to use and ready to implement guide to avoid being the creator of toxic culture in your company, and help you keep your dark side under control. In combination with reflection on what you have learned you will be guided through the process of creating and tailoring your own personal NoA** guide specific to your company and leadership personality.
“The line between good and evil is in the centre
of every human heart. ”
** CREATIVE LEADERSHIP WORKSHOP DAY 1
9:30h – Doors open
10:00h – 10:30h | Welcome, Introduction Speakers & Program
Outline:
ILKA VOGTMANN: ASSHOLES | What Why How
IDA KYMMER: OTHERS | Toxicity Shift
ILKA & IDA: YOURSELF | Body Mind Relationship & noA**hole Guide
10:30h – 13:00h First Speaker: Assholes | Ilka Vogtmann
KNOWLEDGE - increase of power vs. decrease of empathy: personality - creativity - stress
13:00h – 14:00 h | lunch break
14:00h – 15:00h First Speaker: Assholes | Ilka Vogtmann
KNOWLEDGE - increase of power vs. decrease of empathy: personality - creativity - stress
15:00h - 15:30h Q&A
15:30h – 16:00 h | coffee break
16:00h – 17:30h Second Speaker: IDA KYMMER: OTHERS | Shift of toxic situations
TOOLKIT 1: How to stop others from being assholes
TOXIC CULTURE - NOTICE - SWITCH
17:30h - 18:00h Q&A
19:30h networking dinner
** | CREATIVE LEADERSHIP WORKSHOP - DAY 2
9:30h – Doors open
9:45h-10:00h outline day
10:00h – 13:00h Second Speaker: IDA KYMMER: OTHERS | Shift of toxic situations
TOOLKIT 1: How to stop others from being assholes ?
TOXIC CULTURE - NOTICE - SWITCH
11:30h – 11:45h coffee | tea break
13:00h - 14:00h lunch break
14:00h - 15:00h ILKA &IDA: YOURSELF | noA** Guide (the noasshole guide)
TOOLKIT 2: How to stop yourself from becoming an asshole?
PERSONAL: emergency kit - moment of no return - body awareness
15:00h – 15:30h coffee | tea break
15:30h - 16:30h ILKA VOGTMANN: YOURSELF | noA** Guide (the noasshole guide)
TOOLKIT 3: How to create a culture of motivation instead of pressure?
ORGANISATIONAL: structure - culture - psychology
16:30h – 17:30h: WRAP UP & Q&A
